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Chester Pitts

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LaToya and Chester Pitts (Photo: by Danny Nguyen)

LaToya and Chester Pitts (Photo: by Danny Nguyen)

The Chester Pitts Foundation – Fine Arts, Culture and Smiles

Believe it or not, even here in Houston, there are things more important than football. A man who knows that firsthand is original Houston Texan CHESTER PITTS, just half of the brains and brawn behind The Chester Pitts Charitable Foundation (CPCF).

The mission behind the nonprofit is to evoke artistic interest in children through programs designed to inspire natural creativity, arouse enthusiasm for knowledge and energize the spirit of our youth. “The CPCF is designed to be a conduit, or a bridge, for those who don’t have access to the wonderful world of fine arts and culture. A lot of folks that have had the exposure understand the value, but take it for granted that the kids today that go to public schools – every day those programs are being cut and those kids won’t have access to [the arts]. It’s something a lot of us take for granted because it’s the norm,” co-founder Chester Pitts says of the organization. While Chester may think his tall, slender, drop-dead gorgeous wife is just his backup dancer in all this, truth be told, she runs the show. Something he finally admitted to. And what a show it is to run, as many know, starting and keeping a nonprofit moving is not an easy task, but LaToya Pitts does it with grace, dignity and humility, while balancing everything else in her life, including being a mother.

LaToya says having fine arts and culture in your life helps make you a well-rounded individual. “There are studies that show that kids who have the arts in their programs actually score higher on test scores, they do better in school, make better grades, it’s just overall something positive,” she says. All joking aside, Chester graciously admits it’s his wife that keeps their boat afloat. “We are a team – the Pitts Family – she’s the brains and the good looks, I’m just the guy that happens to know the good people who come out to our events and collects the dough,” he jokes while giving his wife a fist bump. It’s that kind of love, excitement and playfulness that is not only the basis and foundation of CPCF, but their marriage and family as well.

Starting with one small event back in 2008 while Chester still played with the Houston Texans, it wasn’t until 2011 the couple took their philanthropic work to the next level, hosting events throughout the year. Each year the foundation selects a high school or middle school and takes them out for their first symphonic experience at the Houston Symphony. “We dress the girls and boys up and buy them formal outfits and bring them to the symphony for a concert, and do a meet-and-greet afterwards,” LaToya says. This year’s experience will be the Sinatra show, which has been raved about in The New York Times. If you know how the Pitts duo rolls, you know it’s bound to be a good time with a lot of laughs. “It’s not just about art or dance or whatever it may be – it’s about what it takes to be good at or be successful at something. Now we’re talking about focusing and concentrating, about diligence – all of those factors line up to make people better human beings. We want to make sure we can capitalize on it with every kid, that we can make them a little bit better, even if it’s just 1%, they’re still better off than they were and that’s our ultimate goal,” Chester says.

This article originally ran in the print issue of LOCAL Houston Magazine. To see the original online version, click here. 

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FitBit Giveaway

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Enter to Win a FitBit from The Blonde Side & Coors Light

Enter to Win a FitBit from The Blonde Side & Coors Light

THANK YOU for helping us reach 4,000 LIKES on Facebook!
To celebrate, we’re giving away a brand new FitBit.

To enter is simple:

1. LIKE this page
2. leave a comment on the post (linked above) telling us: if you could have lunch with any famous person (past or present – can be an athlete, a musician, politician, historical figure, etc.) who & why?

Contest ends Friday, August 28th at 12pCST. All comments & LIKES must be in by then. One lucky winner will be chosen at random.

If you do not have FB and still want to enter, you can leave a comment on this blog post – same rules and deadline apply.

Best of luck and thanks to Coors Light for this great promo!

August 27, 2015/by Jayme
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Callaway: New Sponsor

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The Blonde Side and Callaway Golf

The Blonde Side and Callaway Golf

ANNOUNCEMENT: The Blonde Side is starting a blog series with Callaway Golf.

I’m still pretty new to the game, but curious (guys & girls) what questions you have about the sport or what do you wish your friends/significant others knew about the sport?

It can be anything from dress code, golf etiquette, how to begin, picking your clubs, stats and fun facts about the game or a particular player?

This will help us create a well-rounded series to help teach you (and me!) a little more about a game I’m starting to fall in love with!

Pictured:

Clubs: Callaway Soltaire Gems

Shirt: Lizzie Driver

Skirt: lululemon

Golf course: Wildcat Golf Club in Houston 

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Almost Time: FitBit Giveaway

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It's ALMOST contest time to win this FitBit (thanks to Coors Light)

It’s ALMOST contest time to win this FitBit (thanks to Coors Light)

BIG NEWS: The Blonde Side’s FB page is getting SO CLOSE to 4,000 LIKES, which has been hard work!

Once we reach that milestone (hopefully with your help by SHARING this page), we’re going to reward one lucky winner with a brand new Fitbit, thanks to our tailgating pals Coors Light.

You know…because being a sports fan AND staying up-to-date with The Blonde Side is hard work!

So go ahead & invite friends to LIKE this page and SHARE it. To stay updated on contests & everything else, make sure you don’t miss any of our posts by clicking the “LIKED” button above & selecting #SeeFirst. 

According to this article, new figures from analyst firm Canalys show that 7 million fitness bands – excluding clip-on trackers – were sold in Q1 of 2015 and that Fitbit came out on top. The article goes on to say that Fitbit has a massive 68% share of the fitness tracker market which has grown since February of this year. Thanks to Facebook and Coors Light, you just might be a new owner of this great wearable gadget. 

And although it’s usually way too hot to throw a football around while you’re tailgating, it’s a great way to burn calories (but probably not as many as you’ll consume!). If you weigh 155 pounds, you burn 176 calories an hour just throwing around the pigskin (via Calories Calendar). Other simple tips include parking further away, taking stairs or ramps instead of escalators or elevators, walking around the tailgate to say hi to friends and make new ones, and stand up while drinking and eating instead of sitting down.

Other than that, just have fun and hope your team wins! Oh, and wear sunscreen and drink lots of water.

Boom. Stay tuned. And thank you. 
[The contest for the FitBit will run once we reach 4k, and everyone is eligible to enter.]

As always, thanks to my favorite ice-cold tailgating beer Coors Light for this awesome contest giveaway!

August 20, 2015/by Jayme
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Life Coach: Session 5

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Perfection. (via @hipfitnesstx on Instagram)

Perfection. (via @hipfitnesstx on Instagram)

“Is it kind, is it true, is it necessary?”

After an experience last week, this is a simple guideline Sally recommended to check myself (before I literally wreck myself).

Last week I was on a press trip with eight other travel bloggers/writers. It’s always a unique gathering of quirky individuals (definitely included myself in that descriptor) from all parts of the world with different views on pretty much everything.

During our trip, one of the girls casually said, “you sure do moan a lot.” My response at the time was that I was just saying what everyone else was thinking.

I’ve had a few days to think about it, and she was right. Up until now I justified my “moaning” and complaining two ways: people have always said they love how unfiltered I live my life and how open I am about things and many times I’m just making an observation, not necessarily complaining.

But if a complete stranger (a sweet one at that) can say this after knowing me for a few days, there’s got to be some truth behind it. And if I’m being totally honest, I’ve often questioned this before.

I dated this guy for a while. He was an awful boyfriend and is an awful human (those of you who know me, can you guess who?), but at one point during our relationship he made an extremely valid point that has stuck with me.

One of the toughest parts about my job as a writer is that I communicate for a living. Think about that for a moment. I get paid to talk (or write), and I pride myself on not keeping things bottled up inside. At one point he told me that I don’t need to tell him everything.

When you’re in a relationship, things are always going to bother you. He’s going to drive under the speed limit (a huge pet-peeve of mine), he’ll chew his gum too loudly, he’ll forget to text back – whatever it may be. But if you constantly nag and tell him (or even just a friend or co-worker) all the things they are doing wrong, it gets old. Real quick.

If a healthy and loving relationship is at the top of things I want in life right now, I need to remember to look at the positive side, and that goes for everything in life.

Sally also told me about the 10/10/10 rule:

Ask yourself – will this matter in 10 minutes, 10 weeks or 10 years? She says there are levels of discernment and I don’t have to totally censor myself. I should remain true to myself, but I should ask does this really matter, before I jump into saying my thoughts out-loud?

So that’s my main homework this week: to basically think before I speak and ask myself – is it kind, is it true, is it necessary. Necessary is the one I need to pay the most attention to. What about you?

She also re-reminded me that I need to start meditating and suggested this article from Mindful to explain the process a bit better.

My other piece of homework is to work on my vision. Think Big she says. Sally says to visualize what you want, to make it known to those around you. The more you think about it and visualize it, the more you believe it and the best part? She says everything I’ve told her I wanted, I deserve it. That’s what I need to remember.

Meet my life coach Sally (from Whole Life Strategies) here. She does all of her life coaching sessions online, and over the past month, she has been a huge help in keeping things in perspective and helping me move forward instead of remaining stuck like I have been.

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HTC Calendar Reveal

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Houston Texans Cheerleader 2015 - 2016 Calendar

Houston Texans Cheerleader 2015 – 2016 Calendar

Houston Texans cheerleaders reveal what it’s like to be calendar girls at launch party

Football season is pretty much upon us and that means lines of anxious fans everywhere. Rabid Houston Texans fans are waiting to get into the spirit of all things football — and that definitely includes the Houston Texans Cheerleaders 2015-16 swimsuit calendar reveal party.

Fans lined up outside the Go Texan Store at NRG Stadium in three-digit temperatures and humidity on Saturday waiting to purchase their $10 calendars for the bikini-clad Babes on Parade to autograph.

In her fourth year gracing the HTC Swimsuit calendar, Delaney, who poses for April, may be a veteran to the swimsuit shoot process, but says each one is a unique experience.

“We were at a really nice resort, El Conquistador Resort’s Palomino Island in Puerto Rico – a private resort – so we got a lot of extra care for us. It was really nice and pretty,” she says. “We had a fun video shoot to Carly Rae Jepson’s I Really Like You. We had a great time.”

Delaney may look sweet and innocent (which she is!), but be warned her favorite thing about the month of April is April Fool’s Day.

A new addition to this year’s calendar is Callie who struts her stuff for August. Callie was overwhelmed and flattered by the process as she sat next to twins Randi and Jordan (also new to the calendar and the team) to start signing calendars.

“It’s crazy, but it’s flattering – it still seems unreal,” she said as fans began entering the room. As

Texans cheerleaders were photographed at  El Conquistador Resort's Palomino Island in Puerto Rico. Courtesy photo

Texans cheerleaders were photographed at El Conquistador Resort’s Palomino Island in Puerto Rico. Courtesy photo

for the finished product, the blonde beamed, “I love it!”

For Callie, there are a lot of things about the month of August she loves. “It’s my sister’s birthday, back-to-school month and of course the start of football,” she says.

Kicking off 2016 and representing the fresh start that is January is Lesha, who was also pulling double duty during her calendar signings by not only being featured in the first month of next year, but also one of the cover girls.

As for the cover, Lesha is particularly proud to be next to a few of her fellow cheerleaders, even if that means extra sharpie duty. “When I saw it, I was like oh my goodness, I can’t believe that’s me. It’s such an exciting experience and feeling that I’m so thankful and grateful for,” she says.

January also happens to be Lesha’s birthday month (January 18), so be sure to send her a note on Twitter when that day rolls around.

And speaking of Twitter, by our last count Lesha has more followers than any other NFL Cheerleader. Give her a follow at @HTC_Lesha.

Like last year, this year’s cover boasts six beautiful ladies (Antonieta, Delaney, Callie, Lesha, Kelly and Jessica) rather than highlighting just one. This simple photo speaks volumes for the way Texans cheerleaders coach Alto Gary runs her team. She likes to highlight as many of the girls as possible to show off their hard work, not to mention the teamwork and bond these ladies share.

Saturday’s event was open to fans who purchased a calendar who all had the chance to have the entire 2015 HTC squad sign their calendars, and check out a behind-the-scenes tour of their locker room. The afternoon also included mini makeovers at Salon HTC and a 10 percent discount at the Go Texan Store.

The ninth annual calendar was shot by photographer Trask Smith and is $10, with all proceeds benefiting the Houston Texans Foundation. Buy your calendar now.

This article originally ran on Culture Map. Click here to see the original article.

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Life Coach: Session 4

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Next steps...

Next steps…

Everyone always says life doesn’t have to be so complicated. If that’s true, then WHY IS IT SO DAMN COMPLICATED?

Maybe it’s just my life, but nothing seems easy. Absolutely nothing. Going to the post office? A nightmare and then some. Paying a bill online? Some new glitch in the system, always. Go out of town and your power “accidentally” gets turned off. It’s always something.

So imagine my surprise when my session this morning started off with, “Start with a celebration – what’s going right?”

Funny how that simple question made the wheels in my head start turning. I was so ready (as always) to talk about what’s wrong and what needs to be fixed that I rarely take the time to say, “hell yes, this is awesome,” about a situation I’m in.

Sally told me she’s starting to see a theme in our conversations – I’m really hard on myself. Truth of the matter is, she’s right. I have to be. I don’t have a family around me praising me or telling me what I need to do, I don’t have a boss or co-workers, or a roommate, it’s really just me, so I have to be hard on myself.

Part of my action plan/homework this week is to pay attention to the language I use towards myself. Instead of yelling at myself, fuming and saying, “I’m so lazy, I have too much shit lying around the house, I should have done this weeks ago,” I should rephrase it along the lines of, “I’m a person who values a simple life, lets spend time to get rid of old stuff.” I don’t know if I’m sold on that process, but I’m willing to give it a try.

We also talked about my dating life. I mean, what is a life coaching session for a 33-year-old single female without talking about the lack of a dating life?

I recently (super briefly) “dated” a guy who was all wrong for me. I mean, if I had to write down everything I didn’t want in a guy, it would have been this guy’s exact dating profile. I won’t go into details, but basically, he’s a lot younger than me, he still lives at home (seriously, slap me when you see me), doesn’t really have a job, and a bunch of other nonsense.

As I was telling Sally how I knew from the start it wouldn’t last and it was a stupid idea, I also said I liked the idea of feeling wanted. I’m that hopeless romantic who likes to hold hands and cuddle (at least before it’s time to actually sleep, then roll over out of my way please) and in the end I really want that happily ever after. This guy would have never given that to me. I’m not sure he’ll ever give that to anyone, but that’s a different story.

Anyways, after telling Sally about this situation and her remaining completely non-judgemental, which was shocking, she said something pretty profound. “Dating someone you know you don’t want isn’t valuing yourself.”

Judge me all you want, but one of my biggest goals in life (yes, I used the word goals here) is to find a man I can start a life and a family with. Sally made me realize that if I’m busy spending my time hanging out with a kid who can’t give me what I want, then I’m not valuing myself and the things I really want in life.

My homework this week includes:

– Declutter. I want simplicity in my life and if you’ve ever seen my apartment, I’ve got shit to do.

– Be clear on the guy I want. Make a list. Sally says to “be hardcore about it.”

– Join a dating site. (Still debating this since I haven’t had much luck finding the non-crazies out there. If you’ve had good experiences on one or know anyone single in the Houston area, be sure to holler…)

– Start meditating for five minutes a day. I am still trying to get better at this.

– Take one step towards publishing my memoir. This is a very big item on my to-do list and it’s just been sitting there, idle. I need to start reaching out to literary agents and publishers again, just one step at a time.

Learn more about my life coach Sally and her Whole Life Strategies business here.

August 5, 2015/by Jayme
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Dash On.

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Houston Dash Ticket Giveaway

Houston Dash Ticket Giveaway

TICKET GIVEAWAY:
The Blonde Side is giving away 5 sets of 2 tickets for Friday’s (8/7/15) Houston Dash​ game against Sky Blue FC, 7:30 p.m.

There are only 3 home games left and the Dash can solidify a playoff position as they are currently in fourth.

AND you get to see everyone’s favorite player (including mine!) Carli Lloyd​, who was named NWSL Player of the Month for July after scoring three goals in her first three games back from the World Cup, including game-winning goals in back-to-back games.

To snag tickets, head to Facebook and tag the person you want to go with. Tickets are first-come, first-serve and both of you must like The Blonde Side​ to win! (Note, if you don’t have Facebook, leave a comment on this blog post for your entry.)

Dash on. [Please share with and tag other Dash fans so we can support our home team! They work hard and deserve it!]

Tickets are courtesy of the Houston Dynamo and Houston Dash.

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Life Coach: Sessions 2 & 3

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Being thankful is a powerful thing

Being thankful is a powerful thing

What if it was OK to just be thankful for what you’re thankful for?

That’s how my third session with my life coach (Sally) started. Sally started by asking me a tough question – what do you like about yourself and what do you value? 

That should not have been a tough question, right? But sadly, it was. I’m not sure if that’s tough for other people to answer like it was for me, but I think I had so many small things I liked about myself and not one giant thing, that they all seemed minuscule and kind of embarrassing and not worth mentioning.

Since I literally work with words for a living, the semantics of the word value always throws me off. But something I have always prided myself on is being thankful and saying it as much as possible.

For instance, in my line of work, someone stepping out and offering to help by proofreading my work, or introducing others in the industry to me, or brainstorming ideas is pretty rare. A few people off the top of my head that have done that and stood out are Will Carroll, Arash Markazi, Megan Brown and Baxter Holmes (he’s the most recent). These are all badasses that have made a name for themselves in the sports and/or media world and get nothing out of helping me out, but they do.

Just the simple forward of an email or media contact or an encouraging word via Twitter is really all it takes, so I try my best to say thank you to them because it’s important to me. I want them to know that they’ve gone above and beyond what others have done. Even a newbie in the industry like Mattie-Lou Chandler has thrown some advice my way. Saying thank you has always been important to me and writing handwritten thank you cards (branded ones of course!) is something I value and pride myself on.

It’s weird, but I do the same thing with guys I date. If a guy does something even remotely nice (which in most people’s world is something simple like kissing your forehead or opening a door), I make a point to say “that was sweet.” It might sound cheesy, but I’m not used to guys doing nice things for me, so I want to make a point to show how much I do appreciate it.

Anyways, back to the actual life coaching part – when I told Sally that was something I liked about myself, I quickly dismissed it, as if it was stupid. How is saying “thank you” something you value or like about yourself? Of course she told me that I judge myself too harshly and that gratitude and thankfulness is something that helps our psyche and well-being and I shouldn’t dismiss it. Until this conversation I hadn’t realized that gratitude is a value.

The definition of gratitude is: the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.

The top two definitions of value are: 

  1. the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something.
  2. a person’s principles or standards of behavior; one’s judgment of what is important in life.

At the end of our session, Sally challenged me by asking where am I satisfied in my life and dissatisfied. Again, those are things I don’t know the answers to, but I’ve got to mull them over and figure it out. I know I wish I was a wealthy freelancer (do those even exist) and that my memoir was published and that I was in a healthy and loving relationship with a hot man…does that count for anything?

What do you value or like about yourself? I’d love to hear them, especially if they are even small things that you might dismiss.

One of the recurring points I’ve had in my conversations with Sally is that there are things I know I want in my life and attributes I want others to associate with me, but how do you get there? What things do you add to your life or what do you take away to be the ultimate best version of yourself? That’s what I’m here to figure out. Check out Sally’s life coaching website here and stay tuned for the rest of our sessions over the next two months. Clearly I have a lot more to work on, but don’t we all?

August 1, 2015/by Jayme
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