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The Beaches of Fort Myers and Sanibel

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Photo courtesy of The Beaches of Fort

Photo courtesy of The Beaches of Fort

Great getaway: Channel your inner Jimmy Buffett at these secluded Florida beaches

If you’re looking for a getaway to channel your inner Jimmy Buffet, or vacation like Carrie Underwood or stroll along the white sandy beaches like Christie Brinkley on the cover of Sports Illustrated’s swimsuit issue (1981), look no further than the beaches of Fort Myers and Sanibel.

While Florida in its entirety is pretty much at full capacity year-round thanks to the luscious beaches and booming atmosphere, there are still some breathtaking spots with lots of wiggle room left to be explored about two hours south of St. Petersburg on the Gulf of Mexico. Everyone already knows about the margarita vibes in Key West, but the vibes found throughout the beaches of Fort Myers and Sanibel (most notably Captiva Island) are much less crowded, and equally wanderlust-worthy. Indeed perfectly capable of handling any variation of your margarita request.

With nonstop flights offered from Houston-Intercontinental (IAH) to Southwest Florida International Airport (RSW), it’s easier than ever to get to your cheeseburger in paradise in just a few hours. There is so much to explore in the area, you’ll want to get a rental car (a cab from the airport to Captiva Island runs more than $70, so save some money by renting a car).

Plenty of room to explore – or do nothing. There’s more than 50 miles of white sandy beaches and 590 miles of shoreline, so you’ll have plenty of stuff to see and do – or do nothing at all but lounge around with a cocktail and/or good book. The sunsets here draw quite the crowd, so come early and stay late.

Stay like a celebrity. We all want Carrie Underwood’s legs, but what about her vacation style? The country powerhouse recently paid a visit to Captiva Island, at one of South Seas Island Resort’s luxurious private vacation homes. Guests can feel at home in a variety of accommodations, ranging from hotel rooms to condominiums and cottages to private villas and homes. The property is so large you’ll need a golf cart to navigate it and there are miles and miles of beaches not to mention wildlife preserves to keep you occupied.

Picture-worthy. Everywhere is Instagram-worthy, but you’ll definitely want to check out the “preppiest place on earth,” Boca Grande. Boca Grande is the heart of Gasparilla Island nestled off of southwest Florida’s Gulf coast, and is the unique and quaint locale that was Katharine Hepbrun’s temporary respite from paparazzi and autograph-seeking fans. It’s clustered around the old train depot and serves up a taste of Florida’s yesteryear. Boca Grande has evolved into a playground for discerning travelers and celebrities.

Have a few cold ones with $70,000 scattered around you. Home of the historic Cabbage Key Inn, Cabbage Key is a unique island that was purchased by highly acclaimed author and playwright Mary Roberts Rinehart in the 1930s. The home was later converted into a cozy inn with six guest rooms and an open-air restaurant, which attracts thousands of visitors each year. Cabbage Key is now wallpapered with signed dollar bills (more than $70,000 as of last count). The tradition began when a thirsty fisherman left his autographed bill taped to the wall, ensuring a cold drink the next time he stopped by. Talk about a man with a plan.

Celeb sightings always make vacations extra-memorable. The Cabbage Key Inn & Restaurant has been a popular hotspot for celebrity sightings like Julia Roberts, Jimmy Carter, John F. Kennedy Jr. (whose dollar bill is hanging behind the main counter in the restaurant) and Ernest Hemingway, to name a few.

We promised margarita vibes and cheeseburgers in paradise, so…If you’re a Jimmy Buffett fan, Cabbage Key is rumored to be the spot that inspired his hit song, “Cheeseburger in Paradise,” transforming the diminutive inn into a world-famous attraction. Plus, the cheeseburgers and atmosphere are exactly as the song says.

The Island Cow Eatery is another great dining option with one of the most diverse menus. The Island Cow will be the place that reminds you to relax – you’re on island time. And we wouldn’t be surprised if you made more than one visit here during your stay. It’s that good.

A place for inspiration. Buffett’s hit song wasn’t the only big hit inspired in the area. When Anne Morrow Lindbergh visited Captiva Island and penned her famous book, Gift from the Sea, she wrote: “The beach was covered with beautiful shells and I couldn’t let one go by unnoticed. I couldn’t even walk head up looking out to sea, for fear of missing something precious at my feet.” There are more than 400 shell varieties of all shapes, sizes and colors, making it a seashell lover’s paradise.

You have to see it to believe it. One of Captiva Island’s most popular restaurants, The Bubble Room is a three-story venue decked out in nostalgic décor from the ’30s, ’40s and ’50s, and filled to the hoarder’s brim with outlandish décor featuring unique Christmas items, antiques, and Hollywood glam all rolled into one. The restaurant is nationally recognized for its quirky menu items, such as “Duck Ellington” and “Gone With the Fin,” in addition to its award-winning and incredibly oversized desserts, that are bigger than your actual head. It’s the most eclectic place you’ll ever have the pleasure of grabbing a meal – guaranteed. Pro tip recommendation – grab dinner at one of the many outside patios (opt for any variation of seafood that’s fresh) and then head to The Bubble Room for drinks and dessert after. And you’ll want to share your cake – take our word.

This article originally ran in the travel section of Culture Map, here. Jayme is also a travel writer, covering the best destinations and deals from Houston. 

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Holiday Hosting Tips

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Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

I’ve shared before that I’m not really a hostess with the mostest. I blame my mother, honestly. Hear me out – my mother never really hosted parties or family events – we were always going elsewhere. I know how to be polite and always (ALWAYS) bring a bottle of wine, and send a thank you note afterwards, but when it comes to hosting people in your home, I’m still learning as I go.

Here are a few hosting tips I’ve learned, just in time for the holidays:

  • Don’t run out of wine – just don’t. It’s not like you won’t drink anything that’s leftover from a holiday gathering, so plan ahead.
  • Keep the menu simple – I love my “drool: food and drink” Pinterest board for ideas.
  • Have enough seating! I love that my Lexington Sectional from Apt2B is super big and comfy, so we can fit a lot of people on our couch, comfortably, which is key. We also have extra seating and our desk chairs can easily blend in with our living room furniture, so even though it’s an apartment, we have quite a bit of room. Entertaining in tiny spaces is no fun – trust me!
  • Create a bar area. This way guests can make their own drinks (or pour from a pre-made
    Holiday hosting at its finest

    Holiday hosting at its finest

    pitcher of cocktails) so you’re not playing bartender the entire time. If you’re not doing alcohol, set up a water, soda or hot chocolate station and put some effort into it to make it inviting.

  • It’s all about the ambience. I’m a big fan of candles (obsessed, really) – get a seasonal candle and turn on some holiday tunes (make a playlist ahead of time) and call it a day! Even if you don’t own a ton of holiday decorations, invest in some. If you’re hosting any kind of party – New Year’s Eve, Birthday, Christmas, etc. you need decor to help keep it festive. It’s worth the small investment and if you plan ahead, you can usually get some good deals.
  • Make it an open house. Especially if you live in an apartment or are fearful of being overwhelmed with too many people at once, create an event from 6p -10p and tell friends and family to drop by anytime during that window.

Obviously there are about a million tips we have all learned from hosting holiday parties in our homes, but those are some of my top tips. What about you – do you have any hosting tips to share or a go-to appetizer or champagne cocktail?

One of the reasons I love living at The Millennium Kirby is that it truly feels like home. I think a “home” is a feeling, and being able to host friends and family – during the holidays or not – is part of making it a home. [SPONSORED]

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What’s In Your DVR?

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Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

I have no shame in my game admitting that I can spend hours upon hours on the couch – even on a gorgeous Saturday afternoon – or worse – when I have free tickets to the Texans game across the street but my couch feels much more conducive to my day.

For starters, I have the most comfortable couch, EVER. And there’s plenty of room for my boyfriend and my two dogs or just a ton of blankets and the remotes. Either scenario works for me. (Bonus – they even white-glove delivered my couch, so that part was easy too!)

So now that I’ve told you my dirty little secret about spending hours on the couch, let me share what usually fills my DVR (and remember, this is a no judgement zone).

  • Any and every episode of every city of the Real Housewives franchise. I know a lot of people “lose respect” for me because of some of my TV choices, but I’m totally OK with that. Life is too short to worry what other people are watching, amiright?
  • Still stuck on Bravo, Vanderpump Rules is a crazy obsession of mine.
  • WAGS – I’m partial to the original version, but I watch Miami too.
  • Of course, we record and rewatch all the Texans games – it’s important for when I do guest TV and radio to keep up-to-date with what’s going on (though it’s usually the same story – our quarterback sucks and he has no o-line to protect him…).
  • Any law or criminal shows – like Law & Order SVU, Chicago PD, Chicago MD, Chicago Fire, Criminal Minds, etc. I pretty much watch them all.
  • Dateline – yes, this is probably my favorite. You know we’re getting comfortable (or is it lazy?) in our relationship when we’re totally cool making dinner at home and watching a new Dateline. Speaking of which – I can’t wait until Friday already!

What about you – what’s clogging up your DVR? I dished, now it’s your turn!

Even though it’s still “just an apartment,” living at The Millennium Kirby really feels like home. I love spending time on my couch, watching TV and having friends over more than I have in a long time. [SPONSORED]

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Décor Ideas For The Win (Apt2B)

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Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography (table: DIY project, furniture: Apt2b)

Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography (table: DIY project, furniture: Apt2b)

This post is an adaptation from a blog collaboration with Apt2B, from “The Couple in 2D”

I’m not exactly sure how it happened, but somehow I was born without the fashion, makeup, cooking or creating and decorating gene. I can throw a softball faster and further than most, I know more plays and schemes for the NFL than most, but when it comes to decorating my apartment, I am at an utter and complete loss. And now that we have moved into The Millennium Kirby, which is an uber chic apartment complex in Houston, I want the furniture and decor to really be on point.

So I did what any normal girl would do – I spent hours and hours scouring the Internet. And here’s what I found – I like a lot of random stuff including, but limited to: pale colors, bold colors, whites and nudes, bohemian and Texas and ranch-inspired things.

Needless to say, my tastes are all across the board, but here are some things I found helpful during the decorating process:

–       I find a lot of inspiration on Instagram and there are so many great bloggers and photographers out there. Even if they don’t tag or link where they bought a product, I’ve had luck just asking. I even created a “my home” folder in my phone, saving screenshots so I don’t have to search for them later. This helps when I’m consulting with friends who are good at this kind of stuff (see last tip).

–       Speaking of finding inspiration on Instagram, I used a photo I had saved and took it to my local hardware store to make (believe it or not!) my own kitchen table. (I’m still shocked.) The table was made with a wooden round top (I got it at Lowe’s) and hairpin legs (which I had never heard of but ordered online). I just asked around and figured out how to make the table, which ended up costing less than $100, total, and gave me an insane amount of pride. Admittedly, it wobbles a bit, but I think that just gives it character.

–       I learned to get over my fear of crossing multiple “themes” for my home, because guess what – it is my home. If I want to have a clean, crisp sectional in cream, I can easily add and change the accent colors each season, or every year, etc. I have a very modern theme from my pieces I got from Apt2B, but I wasn’t afraid to throw in a cow skull as my main décor piece. I also saw a cool idea on Instagram to glue flowers onto the skull head, so once I can convince my significant other into defacing our beloved skull, it’s on!

–       Faith is very important in our household, not just to each of us individually, but as a couple. I have

Image via Pinterest

Image via Pinterest

found reading a Bible verse or positive message each day helps me keep calm (usually!), so I knew incorporating a verse into our décor was a must. Though it took hours finding my exact piece, you can search Etsy and find scripture and calligraphy on pretty much anything. Some of my favorite Bible verses include Genesis 35:3, Jeremiah 29:13, Exodus 14:14, 1 Peter 5:8, 1 Peter 1:6 and so many more.

–       I also used the Internet to get rid of some furniture and décor we didn’t need or want anymore. I’ll admit, it took a lot of effort to repost (Craigslist for example) until things got sold, but the extra cash and space in the apartment was really worth it. Of course, you can always donate to a local worthy cause or search a fun DIY furniture hack/project on the Internet. We also had a lot of duplicate items we didn’t have room for (two dish sets, two Keurigs, etc. that needed to be sold or gotten rid of).

Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography // Mirror: Apt2b

Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography // Mirror: Apt2b

–       I decided to pick one small area of the apartment and crown it as my “favorite little place.” The vain human in me just so happened to make it a “selfie station” with my Taft full-length mirror (in walnut) and added a graphic bath mat that says “You Look Good,” which I put right smack-dab in our living room. As a full-time blogger, photos and selfies are an essential part of my job, so this not only fits my style, but it helps make my job easier too. My boyfriend won’t ever admit it, but I know he loves it too, posing with the dogs with the readily-available caption you look good.

–       Pinterest, of course, is a no-brainer when it comes to finding décor ideas and inspiration. And of course APT2B has some incredible pins. And although it has nothing to do with furniture or décor, I’m a big fan of hosting friends for football games, so this Super Bowl Sunday board was one of my favorites. Here is my personal “House Inspo” board – with things I want and need now, and others that I need to be a millionaire to afford. Always a dreamer.

I also had to have a talk with myself (well, truth be told, my boyfriend initiated it) to remind me that Rome wasn’t built in a day. It’s true; I wanted to snap my fingers and magically transform my apartment exactly how I wanted it, but it just wasn’t feasible – financially and with our hectic work schedules. So we are taking it one day (or project) at a time.

Being a responsible adult and getting new big-girl furniture is part of the “new me” living at the Millennium Kirby. [SPONSORED]
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Houston Brunch: Café Azur

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Photo: David Tong for Café Azur

Photo: David Tong for Café Azur

Café Azur is a cute little spot in Montrose I had the pleasure of brunching at this past weekend.

Brunch is pretty much one of my favorite things, and Café Azur did not disappoint. It has the absolute cutest little set up – the kind you want to stay at all day and drink mimosas and snap photos. That can’t be just me that does that, right? 

Though the brunch menu is small, it’s mighty. It’s got classic breakfast/brunch options and then some a little more intense, like a Duck Confit (which I had and loved!) or Ox Cheek, to name a few. Both sound incredibly exotic and adventurous, but both are fittingly perfect for the Houston brunch scene. And both were easily washed down with a few cocktails.

And of course you can’t do brunch without brunch cocktails, which include:

BLOODY MARY

Fresh tomato juice, signature house spice mix and juices, two select vodkas, celery foam 12

FRENCH 75

Hennessy cognac, fresh lemon juice, turbinado sugar, Brut Champagne 14

MIMOSA

Fresh orange juice, champagne 10

BELLINI

Fresh white peach purée, strawberry, champagne 11

Then for dessert, either finish it off with a Crepe Suzette – or another Bellini. I won’t judge – or better yet – go for both! It’s the weekend, so live a little.

Now I can’t wait to check out Cafe Azur for a date night spot. So stay tuned!

Since moving into The Millennium Kirby a few months ago, brunch back “inside the loop” has become my thing again. Oh how I missed it, and how nice it is to live so close to so many of Houston’s best restaurants. SPONSORED

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How To Lazy Sunday

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Couch: Apt2b (Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography)

Furniture: Apt2b (Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography)

Some people just don’t know how to be lazy and useless – and I kind of feel bad for them. Since I’m so good at being lazy, especially on Sundays, I thought I’d dedicate a post sharing exactly “how to lazy Sunday.” Feel free to add your thoughts in the comment section below.

Full disclosure – I try to go to church every Sunday, so my “lazy Sunday” usually begins once I’m home from church.

Put on comfy clothes. During NFL season, I love wearing an old Eagles sweatshirt, even though it remains around 80 degrees in Houston. I’m a sucker for ugly and baggy sweatpants, but I will always pretend I’m wearing amazing yoga pants when I just lounge around. I don’t know anyone with two dogs who wears nice yoga pants when just being lazy – do you?

Grab a pillow and a blanket and get comfy on your massive couch, big enough for two people if you must share.

Bring snacks and water to your coffee table, so you don’t have to get up, except to go to the bathroom or refill your snacks.

Keep your phone charger nearby, so you can recharge if you start playing too many games or checking your fantasy points.

Or better yet – turn your phone off. You’re being lazy, right?

If you’re watching football, be sure to record the game (or games) you’re watching. If you get comfortable and lazy like I do, you will definitely end up falling asleep for at least an hour. So record the games so you can quickly scan back and see any big plays you missed. If you’re not in to sports, start recording Lifetime Movies and fast forward through the commercials – you’ll be able to knock out at least four good movies on a Sunday afternoon!

Order pizza or takeout. I’m a big fan of FAVOR (it’s a delivery service) – if you haven’t already, download the app and get your favorite food (even cookies!) delivered straight to your doorstep.

Move your entire setup to your bedroom and call it a night. 

Boom – now that’s how you lazy Sunday, is it not?

Since I moved to The Millennium Kirby back in August, being lazy on Sundays has really become my jam. I have no problem getting comfy and wasting the entire day – getting ready for the new week. SPONSORED

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A Clean Apartment is a Happy Apartment

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Photo: via The Millennium Kirby, IG

Photo: via The Millennium Kirby, IG

Our homes – whether you’re a homeowner or an apartment dweller, like me, are a big investment and say a lot about who we are. If you are someone who takes pride in your home and hosting guests (raises hand) and looking for tips to make and keep it beautiful, you’ve come to the right place! 

Start With The Floors

Gleaming hardwood floors that are kept in good shape add a touch of elegance to any home. They also enable you to put down beautiful throw rugs in different rooms, which is a huge design hack to making your space your very own and keeping it inviting. If you are renting, make sure you clean the floors properly and assess them before moving in (ask the complex to clean them, get out any scratches before moving in, etc.). 

Window Treatments Are a Necessity to Beautify Any Home

Elegant looking drapes, or wood or bamboo blinds are a fairly affordable way to lend a look of class to any home. Windows with no coverings or cheap looking drapes or metal blinds, on the other hand, stick out like a sore thumb. This is a simple thing to address that makes a big difference – even if you’re just renting, it’s worth the investment if your place comes with the cheaper stuff (luckily mine didn’t!). 

Keeping your windows and window treatments clean is essential to maintain the beauty and cleanliness of your home, not to mention your health. Dirty windows can introduce contaminants into the atmosphere and bring down the air quality indoors.

Take time to clean your windows and window treatments regularly. Consider investing in quality window-cleaning tools and products to tackle all kinds of dirt and stains and keep your windows and home looking and feeling fresh.


Having Nice Furniture Cannot Be Underestimated

Let’s face it; our homes are filled with furniture, so if this furniture is cheap or tacky looking, so is our home. It does not have to be expensive to have good looking furniture, but it should be versatile and easy to clean – especially if you have dogs, like me. 

Maximizing space is key to keeping an apartment feeling open and inviting, especially in smaller living areas. Investing in space-saving furniture can make a world of difference, both in function and aesthetics. A multifunctional sofa bed, for example, provides comfortable seating during the day and transforms into a cozy sleeping spot at night—perfect for guests or small-space living. Opting for sleek, dual-purpose furniture helps maintain a tidy, clutter-free environment while ensuring that your apartment remains both stylish and practical.

Keeping Your Home Uncluttered and Clean

This may seem like common sense, but it is important enough to mention (hire a cleaning service for some new year apartment cleaning if you can’t clean). You can spend a lot of money fixing up things in your home to make it look better in terms of nice furniture and expensive touches. However, if the place is a mess or if there are things strewn about, all of this hard work and investment can be effectively undone. Plus, an unclean home is a simple and icky way of spreading germs, etc. It’s just not a good look – literally. 

This blog post is part of my collaboration with The Millennium Kirby and how to grow up, get clean and start hosting friends and family. SPONSORED

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Hot Chocolate Ice Cream RECIPE

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Hot Chocolate Ice Cream Recipe

Hot Chocolate Ice Cream Recipe

Never in a million years did I think I’d make (or even want to make) homemade ice cream, but I recently ran across this Hot Cocoa Ice Cream recipe from Delish and had to try it.

INGREDIENTS

  • 3 c. heavy cream
  • 1 14-oz. can sweetened condensed milk
  • 2-3 hot cocoa packets
  • 1 c. mini marshmallows, plus more for garnish

DIRECTIONS

  1. In a stand mixer fitted with the whisk attachment, beat heavy cream until stiff peaks form.
  2. Fold in sweetened condensed milk, hot cocoa packets, and mini marshmallows.
  3. Transfer mixture to a 9-x-5″ loaf pan and smooth the top with a spatula. Top with additional marshmallows and freeze until firm, 5 hours.
  4. When ready to serve, remove from freezer to let soften 10 minutes.

Visit the original post at Delish to see a cool and easy video so you can make your own! This hot chocolate ice cream is perfect for us Texas folk, amiright?

Though I’m not a supreme cook, I knew my next home had to have a large and inviting kitchen, so I could spend more time cooking and baking. That’s why I love living at The Millennium Kirby – the kitchen is massive and perfect to make a mess and invite friends over to try it with me. SPONSORED

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From Me to We (Apt2B)

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Furniture: Apt2b, Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

Furniture: Apt2b, Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

This post is an adaptation from a blog collaboration with Apt2B, from “The Couple in 2D”

 
Being an only child is something that sticks with you forever. For better or for worse, it’s a big label that never leaves and typically, there are a few personality traits that are ingrained from the beginning.
Needless to say, living with anyone has always been a challenge, but moving in with my boyfriend has been an even bigger challenge. No challenge we can’t handle, but one that will surely take some effort.
 
I am starting to learn (on the fly, I might add) how to go from ME to WE.
 
Here are some issues I’ve run into and how we’ve started to combat them, together:
 
Men aren’t the cleanest. At least not usually. And my apologies for gender stereotyping, but in my experience, they aren’t the cleanest. I’ve learned to specifically ask for help with chores, like tidying up or moving around the guest bedroom instead of setting us both up for failure hoping I’ll come home and it’ll magically be done exactlyhow I wanted it. Instead of hoping he’ll empty the dishwasher and clean up the little corner of the bedroom, I simply ask. And usually, he does it without any problems, because I know he genuinely wants to help. Amazing how easy it is.
 
Not only do we live together, we work together. Well sort of. We both work from home and that can be incredibly tricky. Since neither of us has to be up at a certain time and we aren’t necessarily the most motivated people on the planet, we’ve had to set some ground rules, like making sure we are both out of bed by 8:30. That may not seem early, but when you don’t have to get up for anything specific, it’s hard. Other things like “no computers” or doing work stuff in our common areas has helped a lot and helped make it fair for both of us. We both want to succeed and be good at our jobs, so we have to proactively help each other out with these rules.
 

No-Phone Zone. Even though we both work from home, we don’t have a ton of quality time

Rose gold side table: Apt2b // Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

Rose gold side table: Apt2b // Photo: Sunshine Winters Photography

together, so we’ve implemented a no-phone rule from 7p-9p while watching TV together and eating dinner. Even if we get so wrapped up in Big Brother or The Voice that we don’t actually talk to each other, at least we are both present, which is more than most can probably say. (Just so we’re not totally out of the loop, we set our phones on our gorgeous new side table – in rose gold, of course.)

 
Separate TV time. One of the great things about moving into a two-bedroom apartment, even though we probably could have been just as comfortable in a one-bedroom is that we can have alone time when we need it or want it. If he wants to watch hunting and car and fishing shows in the living room relaxing on our Lexington sectional, I can easily go curl up in our bedroom and watch Real Housewives of (insert city).

Let the small things go. As I said earlier, I hate messes, but I’ve learned that I need to let the little stuff go. For instance – I absolutely love our round coffee table. It’s my favorite piece in our living room (probably because it holds my wine glass each night!) and I don’t want any scratches or dents or messy food on it, but I need to remember that it’s part of our living room, which means it won’t always be perfectly clean. As ridiculously cute as our furniture is, it’s meant to be lived on. Scratches are going to happen in pretty much area of your life – tangible and not.
 
Respect and communication. While these things may seem incredibly easy for most, sometimes it takes a little bit of work to remember that you’re in a partnership. It isn’t just my apartment, it’s our apartment. I need to consult with my boyfriend on décor choices, big spending purchases, who’s cooking (and what) for dinner, and more. 
Being a responsible adult and getting new big-girl furniture is part of the “new me” living at the Millennium Kirby. [SPONSORED]
December 2, 2016/by Jayme
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